Title: How about we just walk....yeah instead of sitting on our high horses, how about we all just walk.

Hey World,

So today, I was catching up on RHOA (real housewives of Atlanta) reunion show and just saw these woman going at it and while it may be entertaining we kind of look down at them because well they must be darn crazy. The fact is, we are all human with less than favourable actions so maybe we shouldn't judge so much and just watch the damn show or not watch the damn show.

I often hear females say, oh they are just jealous of me. There is probably more of a chance of them saying you act like a bitch than them saying they are jealous of you AND YOU KNOW IT. You ever meet that girl who says "all the females at my work are just jealous of me" and know that they think she's a bitch without even meeting them? You laugh in your mind and you say to your self and with eye contact with the others listening, its cause you probably act like a bitch...its funny because we all sit there and listen to these people's bullshit anyways. Its also funny because even they know their talking bullshit but they cant help their ego from saying statements like that. But lets not be so quick to judge others yall.
Instead we should focus on judging and improving ourselves, I mean if we all did that wouldn't we live in a better world?
The fact is we all have attitudes/characteristics that are less than what they should be.

We know that this is not the best thing to  be doing but we still do it. Here are some examples;

- Talk to much and dont listen
- smoke and drink excessively
- Lie
- Encourage bad behavior
- Gamble
- Are constantly negative
- Put down ourselves or others
- Are Passive Aggressive
- Lazy
- Coward
- Are too aggressive
- Take advantage of people
- Make too many excuses/ blame others for our faults
- Cuss too much
etc.

The thing is we all know our own faults and don't necessarily need people to tell us our faults. Two of my faults are that I am too inconsiderate of others and I hate shaving lol. While Jenny's skin is always smooth she might not be taking care of her teeth to the extent that I do. Listen, as much as you may truly care about someone, no-one is harder on them than they are too themselves. We live our lives with the repercussions of our actions and are constantly being told what we do wrong. Let's take a break from critiquing others and critique ourselves.

Its like that job that wants you be great at all six things; like yeah right I am organized and know advanced excel and adobe plus excellent communications and research skills. But we all lie and apply for the job anyways saying we have the qualities they want, we fake it until we make it!

TIP OF THE DAY: let's all focus on being the best us or at-least just fake it until we make! It couldn't possibly be a bad thing to work on being a better person.

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